Life will be so easy if everybody did the right thing and never hurt or wronged the other person. But the reality is that we hurt and get hurt by other people including the significant others in our lives. Most of us a limping along life’s journey because we are carrying the hurt and the pains we have received from others or the pains, guilt and hurt we have caused others.
The fact of life is that bad things happen to good people. Even when we are
focusing on the good and noble things most of the time. Bad things are part of life, and sometimes unfortunately, terrible things happen to good people. The good news is that there is something good in every bad situation we encounter if we just look for it hard enough.
HOW TO GET THROUGH A BAD SITUATION
It is tough when life yachts you in the side or when you are in the valley. It is not so much what happens to us that destroys us, rather what we let those things do to us. One way to get through the bad situation and become strong and get through the experience is when you know that you will learn from it and one day in the future and might even be grateful that it happened because something good came out of it. Forgiveness is another way to get through the pain and the hurt. Being able to forgive someone for what they did is not about if what they did was right or wrong. They do not even have to know that you have forgiven them. It is about what happens inside you during the process.